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“Pick up your room.” “Empty the dishwasher.” “Take out the trash.” “Walk the dog.” “Stop writing on the wall.” “No, you can’t stay out all night.” “No, you can’t go to that party.” “No, no, no.” Do these phrases sound familiar to you? Unfortunately, this is often the extent of the communication from parents to kids. No wonder kids are reluctant to talk with their parents. Who wants to be bombarded with orders, directions, criticism, warnings, and negative feedback all the time? Children and teens need encouragement, positive feedback, and to hear they are loved and valued in order to develop self-worth, confidence and optimism.

Healthy communication starts with the parents. It is your responsibility to teach your children how to communicate effectively. It is up to you to create an atmosphere in your home that is conducive to conversations. The best way to do this is to respect your children (including their thoughts, opinions, and emotions) and to listen to them. Increase the number of positive exchanges with your kids so they feel loved and valued. When you follow these guidelines for healthy communication you will be surprised by how much your children have to say!

How is the communication in your house?  Have you created an atmospher that is conducive to conversations?

If you have spotted some trouble, don’t worry… next week, we will continue to explore tips for developing healthy communication with your kids.

Create a great week!

Kirsten