In Service
Jenifer Madson
I was originally going to title this “Out of Service,” which described how I’d been feeling of late, but changed my mind once I, well, changed my mind.
It’s been a tough few months. Grave family illnesses, some economic uncertainties, too much to do, too little time. With more stress on my head than I’d felt in a long time, I started to lose perspective, and frankly, ended up being more than a little self-indulgent as a result.
Self-absorbed isn’t an attractive place for me. It totally gets in the way of what and who I love, and keeps me from coming from a place of service. The more it went on, the more tired of my whiny self I got.
So I sat. Literally. Sat, breathed, and reconnected with what matters most to me, which is to use my God-given (whatever God is about) gifts and talents to further my personal development and impact on others. And as I sat and breathed and watched my thoughts, I came face-to-face with just how attached I had become to the outcome of so many things: my family’s health, my financial position, the state of my companies.
And then I let go. I didn’t stop caring about these things, I just let go of my intense attachment to how it all turned out. And once I let go, I was back in service.
In the spirit of service to you, I will be sharing my “tales from the road” with the Let’sTalk MONEY game, focused on the tips that will accelerate your financial progress.
As always, I welcome your comments and suggestions, and will work diligently to remain yours,
In service,
Jenifer
Jenifer Madson is a nationally renowned Financial Success Coach, author of the award-winning bestseller, A FINANCIAL MINUTE, and creator of the coaching game that’s sweeping the nation, Let’sTalk MONEY. Her unique brand of financial wisdom has been featured in media outlets across the country, including Shape Magazine, and The Nest. She is on a mission to get the whole world talking about stuff that matters, in a way that changes lives—won’t you join the game?

September 15th, 2008 at 2:08 pm
Glad to hear you were able to get through your attachment funk. That can be a hard place to get out of. Letting go of that sort of thing takes real strength and commitment, so I commend your ability to do so.