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You may be married or in a relationship of your own and your single or newly divorced friend is getting hit on left and right on her internet dating site. She tells you about each man who shows interest and it’s like high school all over again as you both obsess over what she should say in each email, what she should wear, where they should first meet. After all, she’s been out of the dating scene for quite some time. She is hungry for your advice and you eagerly give it out. Sound familiar? (more…)

On a recent trip I watched “He’s Just Not That Into You” on the plane. It’s an entertaining movie with some good knee-slapping scenes and a lot of “oh no he didn’t!” moments. The movie starts off with a scene of a little girl getting knocked over by a boy at a playground. A well meaning parent chides, “It’s okay. He does those things because he likes you,” which sets off the life long challenge of misread signs, dating jerks and tolerating bad behavior. (more…)

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My dating advice this month has been about exploring what changes may need to take place in order to succeed in having a long-term serious relationship.  Most of the suggestions are changes that are internal and involve you adjusting your mental perspectives on dating.   However, some relationship help consists of more external changes that can help you feel better about yourself and give you more self confidence – although it may be considered superficial!  (more…)

In the previous posts much of my dating advice ideas were those that require self motivation.  You read a book, research the internet and get ideas about where to meet people for dating.  Now you need to implement them on your own.  You have to be compelled to look into a activities and events and then actually get yourself there!   (more…)

To add to my previous relationship advice about what changes may need to take place in order to help you be more successful with your serious relationships I recommend that you seek to understand and study relationships. (more…)

In the last 2 posts I have discussed some dating advice about how to attract your love relationship in your life: you may need to reorganize your priorities, change the way you look at dating and become more open to who you would consider to date. (more…)

2. Opening up your Perspectives on Dating

As Coach, many of the relationship problems I see is with the way my clients view searching for their love relationship.  Their perspective is that dating is hard, time consuming and a chore.  (more…)

Most times one’s relationship problems aren’t because of other people, but with yourself. Something needs to change in one’s life to allow a love relationship to happen.

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